Neither Ramani, Silvia or Producer Bill have ever participated in BDSM, but they all have stories involving people who have. Ramani says no worries, with one specific exception.Īnother listener wonders is there are universal rules for the BDSM community. ***DR RAMANI'S INDISPENSIBLE NEW BOOK "Don't You Know Who I Am?" IS NOW AVAILABLE FOR PRE-ORDER ON AMAZON! Click here to get it!***Ī listener who identifies as straight wants to explore submissive, feminine style and behavior. Ramani has a lot to say on the social stigmas surrounding mental illness.ĭr Ramani and Silvia Saige take a break from narcissism to tackle a bevy of backlogged sex questions, including cross-dressing fantasies and rules for BDSM. He knows his condition can be off-putting, but it also makes him feel like he's surrounded by narcissists.
Ramani offers advice for how to maintain relationships and de-power the narc's mind games.įinally, a listener with a mental illness wonders how to process the lack of empathy he feels from those closest to him. Ramani addresses how to break the cycle.Īnother listener struggles as her narcissistic, slandering ex drives a wedge into their friend group. Silvia is out of the country and we miss her terribly! Dr Ramani uses the opportunity to address some of our more therapy-minded e-mails.Ī listener with a traumatic history admits to seeing all the warning signs and dysfunction, but wanting to be with her toxic ex anyway.
***DR RAMANI'S INDISPENSIBLE NEW BOOK "Don't You Know Who I Am?" IS NOW AVAILABLE NOW ON AMAZON! Click here to get it!*** This opens up a broader conversation about the difference in men between libido and erections.ĭR RAMANI'S INDISPENSIBLE NEW BOOK "Don't You Know Who I Am?" IS NOW AVAILABLE NOW ON AMAZON! Click here to get it!ĭr Ramani answers backlogged questions about picking bad partners, finding empathy for your mental illness, and keeping friends when there's a narcissist between you. Then, a lesbian listener struggles with not being able to satisfy her partner's sex drive, and the fights that causes.įinally, the wife of a narcissist wonders why their sex life went from 5-6 times A DAY to barely ever. checks in with his daughter's gynecologist about the state of her hymen.Ī listener discovers on her honeymoon that her husband has crippling ED, but she may be ignoring the real problems in her relationship. Ramani and Silvia address that decision, along with the recent revelation that the rapper T.I. The specter of 'waiting until marriage' is raised in one very troubling e-mail. Please subscribe to Sexual Disorientation on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Google Play, or any podcast app!įollow Bail Bonds Media on Instagram for behind-the-scenes looks and other great content.ĭr Ramani and Silvia Saige tackle a bundle of e-mails about one very big problem: What happens when someone wants sex and their partner won't or can't oblige? Ramani's book Should I Stay Or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship With A Narcissist now in paperback! Silvia Saige is an adult film actress and standup comedian. Write the show, ALWAYS ANONYMOUS, with your questions on sex, love, relationships and everything in between: ĭr Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist, a Professor of Psychology, and the nation's leading expert on narcissism. Silvia, Wesley and Producer Bill offer some perhaps counter-intuitive advice for staying safe in the modern dating world.įinally: Silvia shares the story of the time she was catfished! Then, another listener is horrified by a news story of a college student shot and killed by a boyfriend who was not who he claimed to be. But the listener has also lived with them for ten years, which raises questions about the nature of this unique relationship. Silvia Saige is joined by her best friend Wesley Woods, the 2x Gay Porn Star of the Year, to answer e-mails about closets, murder and catfishing.ĭr Ramani is out this week due to an over-stuffed schedule, but Wesley is one of our favorite returning guests!Ī gay listener reports narcissistic behavior in his female friend's closeted husband.